Relationships ?

Relationship - A boon or a burden ?

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Relationship ? it's always been a question to me for almost since the day i have learned that word i might be 15 or 16 when ii discovered that word. And it's funny as i learned that word in my maths class which has no attachment to thee article but yes my maths teacher was not that good looking as i don't even remember if it was her or him.
As we all connect this word to love, care, a bond of joyfulness or a burden to some of them out there. But it all depends on what kind of partner you are with as to clap you need two hands to make that sound single hand can't until there are two people with only one hand.
If we focus on current phase we see relationship of various types with different people i.e. mother son relationship, girlfriend , boyfriend, fiance, spouse, husband, kids, etc.  So the most common we see if guys or girls just looking for the casual stuff that can be anything from physical to mental, sorry i can't use the word as my mom reads my blog too and don't wanna be kicked out. Kidding so i have seen most of today's kids looking only and only for sex from age of 16, people are like "man don't be jealous because you can't get one girl", to be honest even if i do i would better drop her off home and party hard all night with those crazy and amazing group of friends i have.
Going forward to some serious relationship i.e. family, married couples, girlfriend and boyfriend there comes a responsibility, it's just like a two way thing you just can't blame anyone for letting the thing break between them as even though one tried their best other didn't respond because they lost interest in you. The lost interest because whatever might be the reason you just annoyed them to the level they became carefree.
Now in order to understand the process of breaking up you need to learn the process of how it all started you had all the time for them all the space for them, you ignored everyone just to get in with them and there you made the mistake which most of us do, setting a wrong expectation by showing them you are always there for them even without a inch of delay. Trust me no one is perfect and so i the relationships no one loves each other forever, but both of them do make sure even if they loose interest they find the way back instead of dropping off and moving on to someone else, that's not the solution. Kisses, hugs, cuddles & those greetings don't make relationships what makes it last long is the commitment and the trust you hold in one another. Think if your mom offends you, you would just go to her and yell out until she breaks into tears which is a way of making you stop trust me that's the best weapon a women has to control a man "I read it somewhere don't blame me please".
I would give you one example of my relationship, i met a girl i liked her we did hangout for a while we had a really really good time and as i said expectation are to be set in right path which i did when and where it was needed but i failed to notice she never went into my shoes like i did when she said she was looking for a change, and than that happened she just blew everything on me and i was surprised as it was just like a flick of an eye and a person i knew reacted the way i never could have imagined, she suddenly had a list of things to complain about me from that moment when she complimented everything about me. Now i sat down and thought for a while i just had a recap of the entire situation from where it began and where it was now, i learned she never wanted to move out of that well and i kept dreaming of touching a sky like i was since the beginning of my life and my parents never complained about that. So if your partner doesn't like your dreams than don't breakup first understand why and if it still doesn't work well than there's no better adviser than you yourself. Doesn't matter what i did about my relationship but honestly i am happy now i earn well, i eat well and yes i do live up-to my own expectations.
So first thing to remember be up straight in setting an expectation, what worse it would be they would go silent for a day pr two but they would understand if they love you and not the ego of making you listen always.
First relationship of life starts from the moment you see that most beautiful women or most the most handsome man that raised you to what you are now, As once a great person said "You are because of choice you made yesterday and plans you have for tomorrow".
So relationships it can be a boon if you have the right person who does walk in your shoes when needed and you do same vice-versa for them than it's gonna last long, but if non of you have interest in it but keep on stretching it gonna make it a burden to both of you.

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