Relations a responsibility or a lesson ?

As we have always see it was so simple in the beginning of it, it just feels like heaven feels like that is the person you been searching all your life and the only one who understands and cares always. But as time fades you start losing faith start getting into arguments and just get angry impatient and that makes the distance between two.

So here's a small piece of advice "I know he/she feels like the only one but don't rush wait for a while gel in talk for a while and set the right expectations" as it is said in the proved "Never make decisions when you are angry or you are extremely happy" as you often tend to be in the narrow point of thought of the consequences. And often what happens is you lose your control and make promises which ain't real so they think you changed when you try to make things right. And than that one thing happens which none of us ever wish or dream to happen before it starts as everything you did for so long faded away from them and they want it all to end.

Relationship is made when two people promise to stand by each other in crises or happiest times of one another to thick and thin through every ups and downs of life and they promise to stand and face every problem in life not ever letting each other down respecting the privacy of one another. No human would like to live in a box. Everyone has a dream to live so let your partner live it help them achieve what they are worthy of teach them how to evolve in worst times of life. Hold their hand when everyone else wants them to do their will so they learn you do hold faith in them even when no one else wanted to.

Stand by your partner so no one else ever tries to get into them, so they never need to look for a shoulder to cry or a hand to hold just for travelling the path they once wished to walk with you.
I am not the best relationship writer you would ever encounter but when life brigs you down do believe it has a reason to raise you how you are it has a reason for everything that happens or will happen ever in your life. As every day you live teaches you every second you face has a story of its own. So stand by the people you love believe in them believe in their dream so they can evolve and one day you will know what it feels like to be with one you always dreamed of.

So relationship is a lesson we learn and a responsibility of the individuals who hold it so they can stand by their promise of believing and respecting what they once promised to stand for by each other.
Happy relationship is not a myth its a mutual understanding of two people in it.
-Nitish


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